I laughed really hard today.
and that was a perfect valentine gift this year, knowing I have someone to laugh with, and also laugh at *coy smirk*
A lot of us have been programmed to think that love is 'gifts' and 'gifts alone' so a day like February 14th comes and all we want are gifts (yeah gifts are nice, and i did get a gift) but what is a gift when you can not say confidently where you stand/who you are to the giver?
Will a 'gift' make any difference when life happens, and you need a shoulder to lean on, someone to hear your fears, your thoughts?
Will a 'gift' make any difference when you can't sleep and you need someone to chat with till sleep takes one of you or both of you at the same time?
I can go on, but I think I have made my point somewhat. I would rather have the person (with gifts :)) than have the gifts without the person, simple.
Wow.
